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writes: Me and my boyfriend has been going out for 2 months and things seems pretty good at the starting.But,few days ago,he's treats me totally different.He just ignore me,i tried to get things better by telling him the problem we're having.Ijust explained everything over and over again but he just don't get it.I'm getting very sick and tired.I just don't want to lose him.I really loved him.I just want things to get better before we meet each other this weekend to settle up our problem.He often wants to touch me,but sometimes i just push him away because i'm don't feel comfortable him doing so.He is also jealous of my ex-boyfriend who gets to touch me so often,but i just don't let him.He won't understand what i told him.I've already explain to him evrything very clearly.But,what he said is just,wait i for our date this weekend.We'll settle up all this,and i can give you answer is i'm still having feelings towards you.Previously,i've asked him about,he is stil loving me or not.He just claim that he doesn't know and not sure about it.He said he's stress up nowadays,and those jealous feeling keep coming towards him.What he said is just,he wants to do everything that's more over than me and my ex.He told me before he doesn't want sex at this moment.What should i do?I just don't want to lose him,as he's very important in my life.I'm just being so in love with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat i meant is my ex-boyfriend got to touch me when we're still dating.After breaking up,i didn't seen him anymore.Don't get the point wrong.
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reader, Spades  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Wait..your ex boyfriend still "touches" you?
If this is the case, no wonder your boyfriend is jelous. The whole point of being in an exclusive relationship is the exclusivity. Being intimate with one person and that's it. So I don't blame your boyfriend for feeling uncomfortable, especially considering you only let your ex touch you and not your current boyfriend.
If you don't want to lose him, stop being intimate with you ex?
I think the answer here is obvious. That would cut a lot of the tension I think..
Secondly, you are not doing anybody any good by explaining yourself over and over again. He is not going to see it your way. By talking about it, you're only negotiating yourself right back into the crappy situation you were in, in the first place.
I would just wait until the weekend when you see each other and come up with a solution together.
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