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I just want to win him back but he's gone cool. What is going on?

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Question - (15 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was seeing this guy several months ago i think he seemed really keen on me. however things didnt work out as i was still coming to terms of the loss of a previous partner.however i have come to realise that i would really like to have a relationship with this guy i have kept in touch with him through emails some of his replys havent been exactly what i wanted to hear.I left contacting him again for some months however he did reply to me telling be that he had a rubbish xmas and that he was seriously becoming very misrable he even said he would have a look at my computor for me and asked me what was up with it, i was very excited about this because at last i thought i was getting somewhere and would win him back. I explained to him that i had some spare time in the evening before heading out for hogmany and would he let me know for sure.I heard nothing from him, so i replyed asking him what his problem was that he did.nt come putting it across i was really up set.He replyed saying that he was sorry that he was busy and maybe he could tell me what to try as he didnt know when he could fix the comptor. I also said that if he didnt want me to email him again then he was to say and i would stop he didnt reply to that.I dunno whats going on with him or he even wants me in his life all i wanna say to him is that i wanna try with him again but im worried he will say no and why is he keeping the communication open with me when he previously blocked me.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2010):

You're a really lovely lady, and you deserve to be happy with the right guy. This isn't the right guy. He has a lot going on, and this is his way of letting you down. Let him go, or you'll just be chasing him for the rest of your life, and that would really be a waste. Find a guy who is more secure in his life.

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