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I just want to know what to do!

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Question - (30 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends. I really like him and he knows it. It Doesn't seem to effect out friendship, which is good, and i really want to know if he likes me. He always looks at me literally when i turn to look at something by him i catch him looking at me. All my friends tell me he likes me, but i am not sure. I guess It does look it. But somedays he wouldn't even pay attention and others he wants to be with me. I don't know what he is trying to do.

Though just today he walked right by me, (didn't even look at me) and gave my friend a hug and left. Then at lunch, I was mad at him, but he didn't know... Me and my friends have a certain table where we sit,and when he was coming i left to a different table but he looked 4 me and found me and he looked Straight at me and went and hugged one of his girl friends Right in front of ME! THat made me so mad, and it also made me think.. was he trying to make me jealous?

Then after lunch he didn't talk to me and in 5th period (Math) He didn't talk to me. And 6th period he glanced at me a few times, but thats it. I was sad and everyone could tell in my eyes.. And after 6th i was hanging with 3 of my friends outside the class room, and he didn't talk to me. But as he was leaving he caught my eye we stared for a few seconds (it was like he was reading my expression, like he knew i was sad and why i was), i turned around, so i couldn't see him then he took by arm pulled me 2 him and gave me a long hug! it was kinda like a sorry hug... i just want to know what to do please help!!! :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

Talk to him clearly about what you want. Take him aside so it just you too and tell him how you feel and you would like your relationship to evolve. You risk to be disappointed, but you are not exactly happy right now, isn't it? At least this way you will know where you stand and can try to move on if needed. Good luck

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