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writes:ok im 13 and i like this boy and he is 14. He's not a virgin and i am. He wants to have sex with me but im not losing my virginity at this age because im too young. There's only one problem i think he has clamidia because that's what everyone is saying and i dont want to take any chances kissing him but then again i dont believe rumors. what should i do? and if i kiss him will i catch this STD?
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 The decision to lose or keep one's virginity is a very personal one, and should not be judged by others. But as you can see, there are often consequences to sexual activity, to one's reputation if not to one's health.
Transmission of STD's is a tricky business. If this guy has one that is usually so easily treated and hasn't been treated, he's certainly NOT the kind of guy you would want to associated with under any circumstances.
Kissing him is a risk. Probably a very slight risk, assuming he's the kind of a person who would normally be expected to be aware of and careful with his health, but it's still a risk. So ask yourself if it's a risk you are willing to take. And proceed from there.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (16 July 2008):
 This lad ain't worth your time. 14 and he's not a virgin? That's not a type of lad you want to go out with.
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reader, thats_not_my_name +, writes (16 July 2008):
 hey! first of all well done on your mature decision not to lose your virginity yet. secondly, this whole chlamydia thing could well be just a rumour....do you personally have any reason to believe he has it? if you do, you may want to encoruage him to get checked out....chlamydia can be treated using antibotics. but if you think it is just a rumour, don't confront him as you could offend him! and thirdly, do not worry you cannot catch an STI from kissing....you can only catch them from sexual intercourse and oral sex. hope this helps! xxxxxxxxxxx
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