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I just get the feeling off him he only wants me for sex

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Question - (10 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2006)
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I’m 18 have been single two years coz I’ve found it hard to find a nice trustworthy guy.

My friend introduced me to this guy three months ago hes 24.

He really liked me so she gave him my msn and we spoke on line a lot. And we often text each other.

He soooo nice to me…hes a really lovely guy.

One night when I was out I bumped into him and he invited me back to his flat…we ended up having sex…after that we kept in touch like normal.

I’ve seen him a few times since then hes stayed with me and I’ve stayed with him. (with no sex)

But I just get the feeling off him he only wants me for sex.

My feelings of this were only made strong by him changing his marital status on his pro to 'swinger'.

I want more after been single for this long but I donno how to discus this with him coz I don’t want him thinking I’m just a stupid kid or a gold digger (hes in a local band… and their gona b huge once their signed.)

How ever he has commented on my maturity before saying that I behave a lot older for my age (donno if that’s a good or bad thing though lol.)

I just don’t know what to do…I don’t wana b stuck in a fuck buddy situation but I also don’t wana push him away by coming on to strong.

What should I do??

A guys out look on this would be appreciated

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A female reader, P.R. Princess +, writes (10 August 2006):

P.R. Princess agony auntHey I'm P.R.Princess and I sugest that u guys take it slow.B'cuz if he wants u JUST 4 sex then u should dump him but if he doesnt then stay with him,but I still think ya should take it slow.

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A male reader, CaptainPicard +, writes (10 August 2006):

CaptainPicard agony auntWell, why don't you just tell him how you feel and ask him some committment? Despite of what many women think, we can't read minds and he must be thinking that everything is fine and you don't want committment either.

Just make sure you don't fall for a guy that is fucking around.

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