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I would like to get a prenup drawn up to protect the family business, he says he wont marry me if I do this, am I in the wrong ?

Q.   Hi, I am planning to get married in April 2008, my Mum and dad have a really good family run business which I have worked really hard at for the past 6 years. I have mentioned a prenuptual agreement as I would hate it to be distroyed in the...

A.   15 November 2006: Never give up! I just have huge fight with my girlfriend on this issue but this is probably the only thing I won't compromise. If your future wife/husband don't want to sign a prenup, he/she want to marry you for your money, as simple as that. If ... (read in full...)

I need ideas for a memorable birthday pressie for my BF of 3 years!

Q.   My boyfriend always does really sweet things for me. He took me to a fair and had our names engraved on matching dawg tags. We have been together 3 years and I want to get him a really sweet present that I know he will like but I dont have a lot of ...

A.   15 August 2006: I'd suggest you make him a good steak and give him the blojow of his life later... that can't go wrong with any man. ... (read in full...)

Is This Love That I'm Feeling?

Q.   Just to verify, can anyone tell me if this is love that im feeling. I am feeling like this:- 1. whenever im around her, i feel happier than i ever have before 2. She makes me feel good about myself 3. I've felt more emotions since i've met ...

A.   14 August 2006: Don't let it go! Engage for it! You can date a hundred women and never having these kind of feelings... (read in full...)

Worried about sex, love and all that stuff!

Q.   I've met this girl but she says she looks for a certain qualities in guys. i match all the qualities accept 1, i am inexperienced. the thing is, im one of those guys that want to have sex for all the right reasons, not jus for fun. I would like to ...

A.   10 August 2006: Focus on the good points: if she has some heart she will appreciate that you waited for her, plus she can have a lot of fun teaching you. And ey! you don't have any STDs! :D... (read in full...)

I just get the feeling off him he only wants me for sex

Q.   I’m 18 have been single two years coz I’ve found it hard to find a nice trustworthy guy. My friend introduced me to this guy three months ago hes 24. He really liked me so she gave him my msn and we spoke on line a lot. And we often text each ...

A.   10 August 2006: Well, why don't you just tell him how you feel and ask him some committment? Despite of what many women think, we can't read minds and he must be thinking that everything is fine and you don't want committment either. Just make sure you don't fall... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin ...or not?

Q.   when I was 16 me and a male friend of mine had sex with each other and i've been told that means i'm not a virgin anymore but i've also been told that i am so my question is am I still a virgin ?...

A.   10 August 2006: Can you specify what did you two exactly do? I think that the rule is that if he put his penis inside you, you are not, if you did something else with mouth and hands only, then you are still technically a virgin.... (read in full...)

Is he insensitive for mentioning the morning after pill?

Q.   Is that a common feeling that you eventually want to have a baby with the one you really love when you are in a serious relationship? My bf is 29 now, I have been dating him for 7 months. He has got a great job at Top bank in NYC. Three month...

A.   21 April 2006: so he asked you to move him and you didn't answer? That's probably why he didn't mentioned it anymore. As I guy, I'd feel really bad if I proposed someone to move him with me and she didn't enthusiastically answered. Maybe he is really busy. If you ... (read in full...)

He always looks at porn and masturbates everywhere..even when talking to me on the phone! What should I do?

Q.   im 18 years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. my problem is that he always looks at porn and masturbates (even at my house on my computer, on the phone with me, ...and once he looked at porn in the school library and ...

A.   15 April 2006: All the guys I know, and many of the women too, either own porn or watch porn from time to time. And I'd say that everybody masturbates from time to time, although some people don't want to admit it. Looking at the bright, I am sure he will be willi... (read in full...)

How old should you be to have sex?

Q.   i am looking for a boyfriend how can i find one and how old should a girl have to be before she have sex...

A.   14 April 2006: As south park's chef said: 17... (read in full...)

I am in love with and doing oral stuff with my sisters bf!!!

Q.   I'm really worried. My 18 year old sister has a 17 year old boyfriend who i really love. I'm more compatable with him than she is and lately we seemed to be getting on really well (i'm 14) and we're great friends. The thing is a while ago when he ...

A.   14 April 2006: Honey, that guy is total scum and had no morals. Kissing your girfriend's minor sister when she went out to buy some stuff is totally wrong. You should do the right thing and tell yours sister and never see him again.... (read in full...)

Never had problems with sex before, but with Joe, he couldn't even get it in!

Q.   I have been off and on with, let's call him "Joe", for almost a year and half. The on and off has been do to me being uncertain of what I want. Anyways I ended up back with "Joe" and he's great. This time I feel for him hook, line, and sinker. ...

A.   14 April 2006: Have you use lubricants? Water based ones are the best if you use latex condoms. Maybe you guys should try different positions, like doggy, spoon, etc...... (read in full...)

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