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I'm single at the moment. I live in WA. I don't know much but will try to help everyone I can out.

As a working mom, do I need a maid?

Q.   Dear Moms, I was wondering how you can be a working mom and raise your child on your own without having a house maid or a nanny full time to help you.. Im a soon to-be-mom and hope you can tell me about raising children on your own , as well as ...

A.   4 June 2010: Hello. I am a son of a full time mom. I have had tons of baby sitters and gone to day cares and spent time with my grandmother but I don't really have a relationship with my mom. I don't talk to her. I hate my father for not being a father. Look ... (read in full...)

I just feel like there is nobody out there for me!

Q.   I broke up with my ex since Janurary and we have sort of talked during Valentines day, and very rare after that. I've been talking to this girl who really caught my attention and i have been basically kising her ass left and right and last time we ...

A.   21 May 2010: Hey man there's someone out there for everyone. I'm in a way like you. I can't find the right girl so I just keep searching going through girl after girl trying to find the one I can connect to. Some like me and I don't like them and the ... (read in full...)

Was this a date or hanging out?

Q.   Hello everyone. So I met this girl I knew from a years back at a party. So I found her later on myspace and we talked a little and I was trying to hang out with her so I say do you want to go to the movies or something and she's like sure. So w...

A.   20 May 2010: Her friend said she already likes someone a lot and she said not to even try.... (read in full...)

How do I find my motivation?

Q.   Hello everyone. My main question is how can I find my motivation. My story is that I have no clue what I'm trying to do with my life. I know I'm only 16 but I know whats right and wrong and everything I'm doing is not good. I'm messing up my ...

A.   17 May 2010: Thanks a lot everyone!... (read in full...)

How can I make him text me and hang out?

Q.   okay so i was talking to this guy for about 3 months then he told me we should just be friends. after that he would still kiss me, hang out with me, and all that good stuff. The thing is though, he's been trying to get back with his ex even though ...

A.   12 May 2010: Well he obviously has an attraction to you so use that to your advantage. If you see him often flaunt want you got and get him to crawl back. Show him how much better you are than she is or you could just tell him how you feel. ... (read in full...)

I really like her, but I'd like to be her friend in the process.

Q.   Hello everyone. I like this beautiful girl! The thing is I feel she is out of my league. The thing is we used to talk a bit at school but that stoped. So last week she comes and sits next to me. So we start talking and I say I would help you if I ...

A.   4 May 2010: Thank you. I really mean it thanks.... (read in full...)

How much do looks matter in sex?

Q.   Hello everyone. I was wondering if I how much looks matter in sex. What I mean by that is i'm 16 and in high school and I wanted to know how much woman care about physical appearances during sex. I'm really skinny and my ribs kinda show and I ...

A.   1 December 2009: Thanks everyone it's all helpful.... (read in full...)

Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?

Q.   Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...

A.   7 November 2009: Yeah you will. You sound perfectly fine. The thing is guys are all attracted by different things. The thing is at that ages lots are immature dumb so they try to date off what they think is hot in there mind. You should wait till high school the ... (read in full...)

Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?

Q.   should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....

A.   7 November 2009: (Mod note: slightly edited) I heard you should because it's really bad to get s*** in your d***. ... (read in full...)

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

Q.   Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

A.   7 November 2009: Thanks both of you. You both are a big help.... (read in full...)

Totally confused by all the mixed signals...

Q.   I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I have liked this girl for a while and we have become pretty close over the past month. One of my close friends is also pretty close friends with her and he says she told him she likes me and always asks for ...

A.   30 October 2009: My thoughts on this is that you should confront her and ask her why shes been so distant. Ask her if she likes you. If she doesn't just tell her you want to go back to the way things used to be. I have no clue why shes being that way though but ... (read in full...)

Should I try to chill will her?

Q.   Hey everyone. Well school started not that long ago (2 months or so). So she sits two seats away and her friend sits in the middle between us. So I say hi here and there. I ask her how she is. I am always nice. And not to long ago maybe last wee...

A.   30 October 2009: Thanks everyone for the help. I was just wondering what you meant by don't openly flirt? Chocolatepieify? She has told me about how her and her Bf fight about little things but I don't know. I will just sit back and get to know her and see wher... (read in full...)

Should I try to chill will her?

Q.   Hey everyone. Well school started not that long ago (2 months or so). So she sits two seats away and her friend sits in the middle between us. So I say hi here and there. I ask her how she is. I am always nice. And not to long ago maybe last wee...

A.   30 October 2009: Thanks everyone for the help. I was just wondering what you meant by don't openly flirt? Chocolatepieify? She has told me about how her and her Bf fight about little things but I don't know. I will just sit back and get to know her and see wher... (read in full...)

What makes someone a good kisser?

Q.   Hello. What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?...

A.   29 October 2009: All of this was very helpful. I'm very grateful for everyone's feel back. I really likes all the details. I will try all this when I get a chance. ... (read in full...)

What makes someone a good kisser?

Q.   Hello. What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?...

A.   20 October 2009: Thanks for the help. I have one other question thats a bit random. Does anyone know the right girth for a 16 year old?... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I want this anymore

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs but not sure if its what i want anymore im so confused i just dont no how to feel about him. He doesnt really show me any affection unless i ask and sex is a very sore subject to approach to him because every ...

A.   20 October 2009: Maybe you should try to seduce him at night or in the middle of the day. Tell him you wanna try new things different positions. Tell him if he doesn't change then you are going to have to move on. Or you can just ask if you two could be frie... (read in full...)

I feel so lonely and ugly because I cant get a boyfriend

Q.   I just need to get my feelings out so if anyones got any advice on how to get through this, or have been in this just leave advice or tips please :( well im going trhough depression, aniexty and low self esteem. ive honestly never felt so u...

A.   19 October 2009: For one it's whats on the inside that counts and for two im sure you look fine. Sometimes you don't see it but there are guys checking you out. If you really don't think you look good you could get a make over but i'm sure you don't even need ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him to stop using me for sex?

Q.   I started seeing this guy for a couple of months. It turned into a him calling me late at night to come over (ending up having sex every time). I didn't want that kind of relationship but i did so bc i liked him a lot. I tried to talk to him abou...

A.   18 October 2009: One thing you could do is give him a taste then just leave him when he wants you. lol. Or just tell him hes a dick. You should not like someone who treats you like a booty call.... (read in full...)

I think I like him, how do I forget him?

Q.   so theres this guy...lets call him Andy.....he's like, he's a really good friend of mine...me, him and my female best friend (Julie) sit together in almost every class... I've know him since last year when we had to organise a school function...

A.   18 October 2009: You could tell him how you feel. Maybe ask to hang alone and then make a move on him and have him forget about that girl. Never tell him and find something or someone to get your mind off him. Thats a few things.... (read in full...)

How can you tell if a girl has a boyfriend?

Q.   I am a 22 year old student who is at university studying civil engineering. I know I am a bit geeky but I have built my confidence up so that I don't have problems talking to girls. The problem is that whenever I talk to a girl and I think "she see...

A.   18 October 2009: Just be friends with them for a bit or maybe just ask them and if they do you could just wait till they brake up and swoop in.... (read in full...)

So...do you think he likes me?

Q.   ok so i like this guy but im not sure if he likes me like hes 17 and im 13 and like he'll state at me and sumtimes i think i see him looking at me ass but im not sure, i hope he likes me but im not sure like and he'll pick on me and stuff like that ...

A.   18 October 2009: Who knows he might but thats not a good thing. Hes a lot older and he might pressure you to do things you could regret later. He might think your cute but I would guess that your under developed and there are girls his age he likes more.... (read in full...)

Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????

Q.   I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...

A.   18 October 2009: Haha I would say its because we are worried if you will like it. We wanna give you pleasure but if we are small we feel we cant a we are not good enough for you.... (read in full...)

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