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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up in June. I loved him so much and he loved me and I think we broke up over a misunderstanding - it was a stressful time for the both of us and a lot of miscommunication and hurt feelings. I was the first to hurt his feelings ( I suggested a break to a guy who is very much afraid of rejection) but I took it back a couple of days later. But he said no. I was also a very bad person to break up with - I kept calling and texting instead of accepting his decision b/c I felt like the break up was based on a miscommunication and I just wanted to talk about it. Anyway, three months later. I find some of his stuff. I tell him that I found his things and ask him whether he wants them back or not. Four days later, no response. Now I'm just saddened that someone I dated for over a year, who was the love of my life and I believe I was the love of his life can just so easily ignore me and not acknowledge my existence. Its just so... disrespectful. I really wanna believe in the best and don't want to think of him as a jackass. Could he be that hurt that he cant even talk to me or is this guy just an ass? I'm just so disappointed in us not so much as a couple, but just as people :(
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 August 2008):
He could be on holiday and have his phone off. He could be in a coma.
It's only been 4 days. Send him an email or some other form or communication. Either that or just go round to his house and drop it off.
There are plenty of reasons why someone might not answer a text for a few days.
Stop worrying so much. It's his stuff he stands to lose, so it's his problem not yours.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): hiya, i've been in the same situation myself. last year when i was with my ex, he broke up with me after i was the one that suggested a break, he used to always be nice to me and i never would of thought he would break up with me which is why i suggested it not knowing he would agree because i've always known how crazy he was about me, but he did, after this whole break, he would ignore be totally not talk to me for days even though it was just a break. About 6 weeks later he broke up with me, i always thought it was the wrong thing to do and maybe it was a misunderstanding because there was no denying we loved eachother, i too would text and call him all the time and i would get no answer off him i thought maybe if we met up things would be different but he wouldn't agree to it. Another month later he asked to get back with me, and me being the mess i was over him said yes. Being with him after getting back together for 4 months i broke up with him because things were never the same after we broke up the first time, and now i've found somebody else who i know is a lot better than my ex ever was to me! So maybe if you hold on a little longer, i know it's upsetting and you feel like your whole world has come crashing down, but trust me, sweetie if he's stupid enough to walk away, be clever enough to let him go!
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