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I just don't get it about porn!

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Question - (24 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

just asking a general question most women wonder when there boyfriends look at porn do they wanna f... the porn girl or are they thinking of fucking there girlfriends? also naked pic like maxim or playboy or just naked mags. what turns them on its not moving pic its just a pic what turns them on? and do they wanna f... the girl in yhe mag. or there girlfriends??? thanks for any answers.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010):

So Bernard, does your gf know you want to f the porn stars? And how does she feel about that?

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A male reader, Nithyanala Indonesia +, writes (24 October 2010):

Nithyanala agony auntIt turns us on for sure. Speaking for myself (and I love straight, lesbian and gay porn) I don't really imagine sex with the person so much enjoy the sheer visual perfection of the picture/movie. It's all aesthetic :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

I can only speak for myself. I'm not thinking about fucking the woman in the picture, but am thinking about how wild she must be. With video's I'm looking for something that makes me really horney. Again, I'm not putting myself in the action, but love to watch and hear a girl having a great time.

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A female reader, glassblower United States +, writes (24 October 2010):

glassblower agony auntBoth my boyfriend and I watch porn. He says he always thinks about me... I'd say the same but I prefer the lesbian stuff. It really depends on the guy, honey. Best of luck. xoxo glassblower

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (24 October 2010):

Odds agony auntGuys are visual, much more so than women. The shape of a tit is enough to get most of us going; pictures in a magazine are enough, it's just how we're wired.

When we're using porn, we're not thinking about the woman, or our girlfriends. Actually, I could end that sentence earlier. "We're not thinking." It's purely a physical thing, like scratching an itch. Our bodies actually react differently to it than to sex - men produce less semen and experience less satisfaction with masturbation than with real sex.

If you're uncomfortable with your own boyfriend using porn, he may agree to stop for you, but I'd advise against that. It's like telling him not to scratch an itch - he can be trained not to do it in public, but not doing it in private means someone else has to.

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