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writes:I have had a crush on one of my best freids for many years. She knew my feels but was in a relationship for most of that time, (or many relationships I should say). She is very insecure and feels she always needs a man in her life, and has had many partners. We messed around several times over the last few months and I was beginning to think it was going some where until saturday at a bar she kissed a guy I knew. I was drunk and lost it. I completed made a fool out of myself and her. I yelled in front of everyone that she was being easy and called her a 2 am bar girl, asked all the guys that ever had sex with her to raise their hands, I pretty much trashed her infront of a bar full of people. She left in tears. I messed up and I know I did. Will she ever forgive me????
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): Wow, you acted like a big jerk.
This is a good time for you to sit her down and express your feelings, and tell her she doesn't deserve all those multiple partners and that she's worth more. And that off course all those words were said coz you were hurt coz of her actions. I'm sure she'll forgive you, if not at least you will have told her the truth.
My best friend in high school had a crush on me, I kissed a guy one night and the next day my best friend picked a fight and became physically abusive. He later confessed it was becoz of the kiss with the other guy. I forgave him.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): what a great friend you aren't.
only one way to find out.
maybe ask her?
and then work on your petty jealousy
and then grow up a lot.
Star.x.
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