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writes:hi i have a bit of a problem. i started teaching my boyfriend of one year computers 4 weeks ago. he started going on the net and ever since he has changed. i know that he is looking up sexy videos and it is really meaking me paranoid. he has become very distant towards me and has even admitted to becoming pervy since he started on the internet. he has become very agitated and distant towards me. i tried talking to him and he told me that i have nothing to wory about. im just feeling really pissed off and low in confidence at the moment!! we are talking about going on a 2week break from the relationship. i dont want to do this because he feels it will end the relationship full stop. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to drive him away. i do love him and dont want to loose him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): tell him that you love him and don't wanna lose him . Tell him that it makes you feel bad and you want him to stop. Tell him that you miss how he used to be . But don't be naggy or pressuring it won't help. If he still acts distant then maybe you should take that 2 week break. It may be just the thing to wake him up and see what a great person he'd be losing over somthing unimportant. OR maybe your better off and coukd find somebody else that will listen to your feelings .....I hope everything works out for you :)I hope that I helped you in some way Good luck !
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 If he doesn't know that much about computers, put a filter on his computer. It won't be a permanent solution, but it might help things some. I'm sure you can find plenty of free ones online, but read up about them first so that you don't accidently download a virus.You have my condolences.
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