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writes:I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same school, but now we don't see each other physically, only twice and after her vacation we had promised each other to go out, however, every time I ask she's got something to do (with friends that care less about her, mind you.) I'm sick and tired of the fact that every girl I meet and end up being friends with ignore me heavily, yeah, I know there's got to be space and whatnot, and that's certainly clear, but I helped her out with tons of things, and I was the one who spent four or five hours telling her to stop crying, and what do I get? another long conversation and no fun with her. I'm very close to stop speaking to her... but I don't know, really, what should I do? I even wish she wouldn't exist... Reply to this Question
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reader, angelsmith2046 +, writes (30 September 2007):
I am from France,so my english is so bad. But I think you can understand what I say.In fact, everyone will both change when she/he underwent agony. I am a girl, so i can explain this. Firstly you must know what she want to do. To talk to her, and maybe you will know what happened during her vacation. maybe she met another man, and fell in love with him. Frankly speaking, these things always happened. I met my boyfriend on internet. He is an American. we are usually talk with each other on that website. Because of distance, we have free space of ourself. we love each other without any pressure. In a word, when you loved somebody, you must give she some free space. Anyway, I hope you are happy. Don't give up. By the way, you can check this website, you need relax yourself. Give her free space, and i trust everything will be OK. Of course, if you like, you can check this site: www.greenfriends.com/i/h5
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): I’m not sure i understand, are you two simply just friends? Or something else? Or did you want to be more than friends? And how long was she away for?
If you are just friends, than what she has done is out of order! She can’t just go on holiday and "switch" when you have been here for her over and over again! She needs to explain why she is like this! If this is a possible relationship, then maybe she has doubts about the whole thing now.
Either way you need to speak to her and tell her how you feel, and ask what has changed, as maybe she has not realized she is deserting you or maybe she can tell you what’s on her mind.
Good luck xxx
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reader, Ms.Sweet dreams  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 dont expect too much to a girl coz thats why u r there for help her not to get any thing back to u. respect what she wants. i know she is really thankful that u give ur shoulder for her to cry on.
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