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writes:I didn't have sex for 6 years after break out with my ex bf. Now ready to have sex with my current bf. He is lot bigger than my ex and I remember my vagina stretch painfully when I lost my virginity. I afraid this may happen to me again. Will I feel the stretch feeling like my first time again even I use lube and a lot of foreplay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): It might hurt because it's not just the hymen breaking that causes pain - this happens to some people without them realising before they've ever had sex.The stretching may hurt a bit but it shouldn't be too bad after a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): Just ask the guy to go easy on you
it shouldn't be like the first time , because back then you lost your virginity , the period between the two times doesn't count
just relax and go for a lot of foreplay
enjoy!! and best of luck
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 I'm sure you'll feel a stretch but it should be pleasure not pain, nothing like losing your virginity.
You've mentioned a lot of foreplay and lube so it sounds like you're well prepared. And just ask him go as slow as you want.
Good luck
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 The pain you felt when you lost your virginity was most likely because you tore your hymen, and that doesn't re-grow, so I think you'll be fine.
If your vagina was built to give birth to a baby, I think it'll take another inch or two. The hymen stretching and tearing was a one-time event.
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