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writes: I have two major problems.I have been with my boyfriend for a month, and recently, some things happened, and he's got a lot of things going on in his head. He's been making excuses not to see me now. Is this normal? Is it just because he needs space, or wants to break up with me for good?I've talked to him about it and he says he dosen't want to break up with me, but we just need time away from eachother until he sorts his head out. But he rarely contacts me anymore and i'm so confused as to what's going on here and what he wants.Also, i have another problem. I have been deeply attracted to a guy friend of mine for about 6 months now. He has a g/f, and i told him how i felt about him when i was still single, but i didn't get a positive response, though he has admitted he fancies me.But lately, he seems to be very jealous indeed that i'm with somebody else even though he has a g/f and i've admitted to myself that i'm jealous about his relationship.I don't want this guy anymore though, i am only interested in my new guy and that's all that matters. I just don't know why i seem to be getting jealous of my friend being with someone else and him being jealous of me, he does make it very very obvious.If anyone could give me advice on my two problems, i'd be very grateful
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2006): I'm the poster of the question
It's ok, my boyfriend dosen't know my friend or that i used to like him, so that's ok.
Thanks all for the advice, if anyone would like to add to the answers, please feel free!
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reader, Floppy +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Hello,If you are adament that you have no feelings for your 'friend' STOP THE JEALOUSY NOW! This may eb what is playing on your boyfriends mine, he may be assuming this from your reactions when you're with your boyfriend! I would adice you to give your boyfriend... one week of space, don't contact him until he contacts you. This will be hard but if you don't seem too obsessive with him, he should start to miss you and want to spend more time with you.However, if this doesn't work, talk to him about it, or maybe he isn't right for you! Good luck darling!... rate me.
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reader, shania  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 I would of thought that dating a guy for a month,you should be in the honeymoon period,it seems to be strange that he has become distant with you,he says he doesn't want to split up with you but he might as well do because you hardly see him....whats the point? Forget about him....it sounds like he hasn't got the bottle to say its over so therefore he keeps you hanging on.As for the other fella who you used to fancy,well if he has a girlfriend already and your not that interested in him anymore then i would forget that as well.You feel jealous because the other fella is still with his girlfriend and perhaps you feel a little bit left out.Dont worry....there is plenty of guys out there who would love to date you....so go on...get out there!
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