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*abriela1993!
writes:my bf, and i have been dating for about 2 months now, our relationship, is more sexual than emotional. Which personally i do not mind, because i am not in love with him. The only problem is that, now, i think he is cheating on me, and i told him, that if he were to be with someone else to at least tell me, that i wouldnt get mad, sooooo, what should i do, apparently he is not telling me???? Reply to this Question
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reader, defeated  +, writes (20 October 2010):
what do u care if he is seeing someone else, u dont love him, really ur a friend with benifits.
why give it up to someone who u have no emotional attachment to
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 This sounds like more a friends with benefits than a relationship, are you sure it's a relationship? Are you okay with him cheating on you?
Kind of an odd situation..If you're okay with it, then switch your relationship to a friends with benefits to keep your options open and no one is technically cheating. No love and just sex don't equal a relationship. At least not a healthy one. Or if you just want him to be exclusively having sex with you, then specify that to him. Now, unless you have physical evidence then you don't know if he's cheating. All you have is your suspicions and paranoia. Give it some time, be more aware of your surroundings, if he is he'll slip up.
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reader, craig-1  +, writes (20 October 2010):
And why do you suspect him because of what? you found texts?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 October 2010):
No disrespect, but if you're not 'in love' with him, then why are you together? Because at two months, if you're already feeling this way and he seems like he's already cheating, then what's the point? Just end it now and get it over and done with.
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