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writes:I have been married for 8 years and have recently become confused about my sexuality I have children and don't want to hurt them or my husband but my life is spiraling out of control and I can't cope much longer please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 March 2007):
 You sound like you have so much more so say and it sounds like the best thing to do right now is get some councelling to help you sort it all out. You need to find out how to determine what you need to do to get on with your life, what ever the future might be. Helping yourself sort it all out will help your children too, they need to see their parents living their best lives. You'll be happier living your truth, whatever that may be. You may not see it now, but everything will be Okay. Good Luck and Take Care.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (19 March 2007):
 Hi,
Is there a reason, that would have trigered this off, for you. Have you met another woman, and this is why you are confused?. You dont say much in your letter, so its rather hard to tell. Have you ever had these feeling's before?. If its someone you have just met, its possible you could just have a crush on them.
Perhaps you could phone a gay helpline, if you have felt like this for years. And they will help you, to come to terms with this.
You say you dont want to hurt your husband and children, but that may mean living a lie.
Get some profesional help, in dealing with this. And it will all slot into place. You will be O.K, whatever you decide in the end. Good luck XX
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