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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex husband and I don't get along. We have a child together. He has a court ordered visitation order. He does not use this order. The child is an absentee in his life. However, he decides to call on my time whenever he seems to remember. It bothers me. I feel that he should leave me alone with my child when it's my time. The other day he calls, I hanged up the phone after he repeatedly called one call after the other. He did not remember to call for his child's birthday but just because it was HIS own birthday, he decides to have a conversation with his child. I thought it was extremelly selfish from his part. Next thing you know, he calls my mother who is an elder woman to argue about why he was put down when he called. My mother does not have to go through this. I told and she told me not to confront him. But he needs to stop. He has me and my mother menaced with the courts and police officers, taking the system for granted and just to instill fear. I need help. Can anyone please tell me what I can do in this case? I am sick and tired of it all. This monster abused me emotionally and psychologically. He is doing it to me again. It's not fair! The worst part is that I have to swallow this anger just because he might go to the courts and ask for custody just to get back at me! The system does not see this, my lawyer did not see it, I had no rights from this abuse! Please somebody help me please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): How about getting a cell phone for your kid that he pays for if he's so interested in calling. That way he'll only talk to his kid and not you.
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