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writes:I have a friend that I have had sex with more than a few times. Sleep in the same bed. There was a time that we told each other we were in love but things have since changed he now sees other girls I havnt done so yet so I sometimes get upset I don't think I love him so why do I feel this way . Its my apartment an I him to leave but I don't want to be a creep an kick him out. He's not currently working what should I do Reply to this Question
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (19 June 2009):
well if it is your apartment i think you should ask him to leave he can go and live with those other girls that he is sleeping with you probably have feelings for him that you havent addressed or you wont allow yourself to feel anything because he isnt in a place right now to carry on a relationship by not being stable since you are so confused i think you should have him leave he is a grown man and it is not your place to care for him you can continue to be friends but that doesnt mean you have to be responsible for him so women up and ask him to leave nicely so you wont feel so bad and if he gets upset then maybe he really isnt as great of friend as you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Maybe ask him tackfully if he has somewhere else he could stay, or if he doesn't contribute to the flat then you do have every right to ask him to leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is really great advice.but I still don't knw how to handle this .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Sounds like your just feeling really rejected, which is never a nice thing and can be very confusing. Are you asking yourself questions like are those other girls prettier than me? does he have more fun with them? etc thats all normal for feeling rejected but can easily get you confused! And you might not love him but there do seem to be some feelings there tread carefully.
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