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anonymous
writes:I have my best friend and I really like hanging with her but she's friends with some lads who hate me. When I go out with my best mate , She always invites these lads and they always spit on me or call me horrible names or push me over and sometimes my friend joins in!I ended up faking that I had to go home because I hated it.. How can I tell My friend about this?
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reader, Variety +, writes (15 June 2007):
 If she joined in she is not your friend. Even if she just let it happen she is not. She is a bitch. As hard as it may be, just back off from her. Or say you will only spend time with her without the lads if you really want to continue to see her. If she won't do this then get away. She seems like she is trying to impress them and she might be worried that if she tells them to stop then they will turn on her. Please don't just put up with this. You are worth far more and deserve to have proper friends who care about you. Message me if you need to talk. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): There's jokes and then there's jokes. They may think they're just having fun but it's only fun if everyone is having fun (and you clearly aren't). You need to make it clear to her and the guys that you're not going to join them if they keep on harassing you. If she keeps on joining in then she's not much of a friend is she?
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