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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've got feelings for my husbands boss and i know he feels the same way. We flirted with ech other at a recent party (not a work party) and he made it clear how he felt since then we spoke on the phone and agreed it could never happen but i cant get him out of my head. Whenever we see each other our eyes meet and just lock. I feel like a stupid teenager what should i do
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reader, Collaroy + ♥, writes (10 December 2007):
You need to get a grip and find out what is missing in your life which is making your eye wander.
My word, there could be no bigger kick in the teeth for a man to have his wife sleep with his boss. Put the shoe on the other foot, imagine your husband having an affair with your boss?
If you are going to pursue this, for god's sake pack your bags and tell your husband the marriage is over, there will be no coming back from this affair if he finds out.
So at the end of the day, do you think your marriage is worth saving, dont kid yourself I'm sure you and your husbands boss will find yourself in a situation in the future where you can't hold back. If you think its worth saving do something about it, if its not then let him go without facing the humiliation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): i know this sounds harsh but u feel like a stupid teenager becasue u are acting like one! you have a husband! decide what u want. if you want to potentially loose your husband over one silly man then you go ahead and do what you think is best. i mean you "cant get him out of your head" so he must be worth it right?
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