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writes:ok so we are great friends, we are awesome together. I can't seem to get enough of this girl, yet she's 24. I'm afraid to tell her how I feel because I don't want to risk our friendship. I can honestly say I belive we were ment to be, but then again I am 19 as of today and I don't know what to do.I haven't had a long term relationship, the longest one lasted 9 months. I am soooooo in-experienced, I don't know wether this is love or lust. I have fallen for this girl yet I know deep down she doesn't feel the same. I want to know wether I should tell her how I feel or should I keep this too myself Reply to this Question
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reader, camille  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 How do you know she doesn't feel the same.? Forget the age or experience. It's you and her together that matters. If you think you are meant to be but feel deep down she doesn't feel the same, that's a contradiction as you BOTH need to share that notion to make it work, or even have a chance. So, I'd talk to her, but don't go in telling her every little thing as it may be too much and scare her off. Take it gently and slowly by telling her you like her, want to spend time with her and would like to take it further, see what she says and take it from there.. Good luck. (Happy birthday too!)
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