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writes: i have a very close friend. she trusts me and tells me everything whenever she is upset i'm there for her. so we are very close. recently i realized i have feelings for her. i want to ask her out. what is the best way? i really care for her. she really wants to get her room painted but she doesn't have the money, her room is very simple and i would love to buy her a few tins of paint, she wanted pink and paint her room together. this would mean we get lots of time to spend together first choosing the paint, than buying it, than clearing her room and finally painting. maybe at the end i would be more confident to ask her out as i'm sure we would of both enjoyed decorating her room! any ideas for suprising her? i dont know how i should tell her i want to treat her to decorate her room! i dont want to buy it before, i want her to choose! thanks for your help. oh and this is supposed to be a christmas present from me, a bit unique but not exactly cheap but at least she'll remember me whenever she enters her room! after the paint i want to get her some big teddy bears etc. any more ideas? so please help thanks
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reader, marie78 +, writes (20 November 2006):
Take her to lunch and put your feelings on the line. Do not live this life with regrets! It's now or never! When it comes to love, you can't second guess yourself. I've realized that. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): thats very sweety, a very nice idea, but just keep in mind she might not feel the same way and it might become akward, i have had alot of male friends and they all seemed so nice and wanted to spend time with me but the real reason they only wanted to do that was because they either just wanted to get down my pants or go out with me, and when they finally ask me or tell me how they feel and if i dont like them i will reject them, after that they stop talking to you and not continue on with the friendship. try some flirting first and make sure she dont like anyone else
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