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I have been with my partner for 10 years now, but I cannot stop flirting and having sexual thoughts about his close friend - who is permissive (has reciprocated.) Any ideas?

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Question - (5 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have been with my partner for nearly 10 years. I have always been attracted to one of his close friends. During my entire relationship we have always flirted on and off and a few times it has gone a bit too far though it has never resulted in sex. The last few weeks we have been texing each other some explicit messages being pretty specific about what we would like to do to each other. Know he has gone off, the idea and i cant stop thinking about him, what should i do? btw he is involved with a friend and i cannot distance myself too much from them, believe me i have tried!

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A male reader, Uraz Greece +, writes (5 January 2008):

Uraz agony auntHe is not asking you to be with him, to be his girlfriend, partner.

he is asking to have sex with you.

So you are asking whether you should have sex with him, and cheat with your boyfriend and continue your ten year relationship, which you are happy to be in.

Well the answer is obvious isnt it?

Either leave your partner, or stay loyal. You went too far already.

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