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heartxbrokenxgurl
writes:its weird but i still love my ex...even though hes broken my heart many times heres the story..he told me he thought i was the one he said i was amazing and perfect he told me he wanted to last for a long time he madeout wit me everytime we went to the movies so we barely saw any of the movies he called me bby alot he said ily every conversation at least 15 times he said he missed me and he said he couldnt wait to see me he said he didnt know what he would do if he lost me he said he loved everything bout me he said he would never hurt me and he said more sweet things too.......but then he broke up wit me for good and i want him back i miss being his bby i miss him holding me.....is it so wrong to want him bk after everything he said was basically a lie?how do i get him back?what shuld i do?can i ever trust boys again?
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (6 January 2008):
heartxbrokenxgurl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thx for the great advice all of u he said he still likes me somewhat but its kind of hard to go out because we dont rele get to see each other all the time.....me n him r stayin good friends n who knos maybe someday we will get bk together =]
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (6 January 2008):
 Just because his feelings cooled does not mean that he lied to you. Think about friendships you've had in the past ... some lasted, some didn't. It has always been, and will always be, that way. We all grew up with those stories of 'true love' and 'happily ever after' and they're fairy tales, honey.
You can trust some people some of the time, and only a handful of people all of the time ... and it will take a lifetime to meet that handful of people. Do not give your heart so easily. It is hard, I know ... you are so young ... but just know that it's your heart and it is up to you to protect it.
There will come a time when you have to wrestle with the guilt of being the one that breaks up. That is another kind of pain, and it hurts a lot, too. Don't think being dumped is the most painful side.
Furthermore, there will be a time when you and your guy will truly love each other, but you will have to break up because of something totally unrelated to your love. Love is not some magic salve that fixes all of life's hurts. That is just how it is. =( Sad, I know.
The deal is, you just gotta keep on keepin' on. Keep meeting people. Keep learning and growing. Sometimes, you'll have to withdraw and nurse your wounds. It's all part of life.
Chin up, little lady. Best wishes.
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reader, **Laurzie**  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Well you don't say why ye broke up. Did he give you any reason..or did he just turn up one day and finish it out of the blue.
You deserve an explanation. Ye're still very young. maybe he didn't want to get tied down at this age. Maybe it all got too much for him.
You say he has broken you heart many times. You deserve better than someone who repeatedly breaks your heart. You shouldnt let him walk all over you.
It may not seem like it now but trust me there are many good boys out there. And you'll find the right one for you in time.
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