A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He knows I barely survive and have hard times to fill up gas in my car, even though I face that situation, I always make the effort to see him at his place, because as he does not have a car he never visits me at mine, besides my place is just a little room where I do not even fit. Last weeks I had to go to the women's doctor and realized my cysts has grown, he just told "you should take care of yourself sweeatheart", on the other hand, I spent a lot of money going to a private hospital, 'cause I do not trust public hospitals here. He did not even asked me, oh honey were you able to pay the bill, do you need some help? I think he wants me to say when I need help, but I just think he must know.Do you think I have to upset at this situation and the fact that he makes no effort to see me???help please.thanks
View related questions:
money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, lexilou  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 I dont think after 6 months you should expect him to pay or even talk about your finances with him, maybe thats just me but I was brought up to be independant and rely on no-one. x
A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Yes, sweetie, I do think you should be somewhat upset. He is a adult, and knows what a hospital stay means. He is also capable what it means on a single woman, and not to offer assistance to them is a insult. Perhaps I am wrong, and I have been more than once in my life, But a gentelman always offer help. As small or Large as it may be. God Bless My Sister!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): Yes, sweetie, I do think you should be somewhat upset. He is a adult, and knows what a hospital stay means. He is also capable what it means on a single woman, and not to offer assistance to them is a insult.
...............................
|
