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writes:hi i need help about a month ago i was told i had pid pelvic inflammatory disease, which i was given to by my boyfriend he says he didnt give it to me but i know that is a lie he did i didnt sleep with anyone eles well in say of this i got pregnant after treatment to find out im having an ectopic pregnancy becuase of the pid but of my ovary,im really scared and sick see the thing is my boyfriend doenst know my age and i have left 2 hospitals so i didnt get admited i live with him my parents dont care im 17 hes 35 i really dont know what to do and i dont know what i am doing anywhere is better than being at home with my parents there terrible to me wha can i do to get rid of the baby safly Reply to this Question
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reader, natasia  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 How old does your boyfriend think you are? You know, I'm sure he'd rather have you alive and 17 .. or the alternative!! Tell him. You need to.
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reader, natasia +, writes (13 June 2008):
Lovie, don't be scared. The ectopic pregnancy is the scary thing, so go and get it sorted out. Then within a few days you'll be absolutely fine, and all this WILL have gone away. The only time things will get bad is if you don't get it sorted, so you have a good choice:
- Do nothing and you will be very poorly
- Go to the doctor / hospital now and then you will be fine!
Whatever they need to do, it will be done carefully and gently and you will know what is happening, and then you'll be fine. You'll have some sort of anaesthetic and probably be asleep, then you'll wake up and it will all be gone. Is there anyone - a friend or someone? - who can go with you? I think you should tell your boyfriend, because he's old and wise enough to be able to help you. But if not, tell your best friend and take her.
I know you don't want it done, but you are a bit stuck now - to get back to being fine, you have to do something. Be brave. It will be done so quickly and easily you'll look back after and wonder what you were worrying about. But the main thing is to get yourself to someone who can help. And do it right now, because otherwise things could get scary, and you don't need that, and at the moment you've got time to get it sorted. Just go now and you'll be fine. I promise you.
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reader, bday121 +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Seriously, you can DIE from ectopic pregnancies! And the death won't happen 5 or 10 years from now, it will happen in a matter of DAYS. You could already be close to that point!
This is a medical emergency and it needs to be treated!
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reader, charine13 +, writes (11 June 2008):
 wow girly, you need medical attention!Ok, first off, you need to get the hell over to a hospital!!! FAST AS POSSIBLE! get yourself help! and also, you need to tell your boy friend that you are 17! that is illegal to be having a relationship with him! and for the sake of your health and your LIFE, get help from the hospital!!!!!Make the right choice~
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): How many times do you need to be told?
Grow the hell up and sort out the mess you've caused, go to the hospital.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Stop being a baby!The reality is you need urgent medical attention or you will have severe problems if not die.If you could have sex with this man, then you can phone him now and ask for his help.You have played with fire, before, the resluts.....you are pregnant......now you are playing with fire again.....the results......unknown....BUT.....can cost you your life!Face reality......make the callWe cannot do it for you......Please help yourself and save your life!Call for help now!Hope to hear from you when this ordeal is over!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 June 2008):
 You can't wish this away, you just can't. It is time to be a big girl now and take care of yourself right NOW!!!!
Go to the hospital right now. No messing around on the internet waiting for strangers to solve this for you. We cannot. You must face this.
Call your parents and your boyfriend, but first call 911 or get transport to the hospital ASAP.
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reader, natasia +, writes (10 June 2008):
Call a taxi or call 911. Go to the hospital on your own if you don't want to tell him, but I think he should know, and would help you (he won't be mad - the poor baby is lost anyhow, so it's not as if you're saying your pregnant and going to have his baby).
You must go now or you may DIE. And/or you might lose your ability ever to have children. But if you get to the hospital asap YOU WILL BE FINE. Be strong - do this now. Save yourself. Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Unless you are trying to commit suicide, get to a doctor or even better, a hospital. The pregnancy will have to be removed.
I also think you should be honest with your boyfriend, he deserves to know the truth.
If you really love him, and feel sure of his love, allow him to assist you to get help URGENTLY!
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reader, countrycutie20 +, writes (10 June 2008):
countrycutie20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim scared i dont want to go in and have this done i wish it all away im so scared
the ectopic pregnancy ive is rare and i dont want to die
what do i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): You are putting your life in danger, you need to get to a hospital immediately.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 June 2008):
Have you made your call?
Seriously, an ectopic pregnancy could cause a rupture and you could bleed to death. No messing around here, this is a true medical crisis.
http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/pregnancy-ectopic-pregnancy
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 June 2008):
Honey, this is a do not mess around, do not try anything yourself, this is a go straight to your doctor NOW and get this seen too NOW!
An ectopic pregnancy is life-threatening for the mother. Serious, hand on heart, do NOT put this off one single minute.
If you need help finding a doctor, or clinic, here's a link for you to use. TODAYYYYYY!!!!!!!
www.plannedparenthood.org
The rest of it can be dealt with later.
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