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writes:I have sooooo many guys hu are mi best mates, most of them are at my school. The problem you may ask that I have is that all my girl best mates say that they ALL like fancie me......... i found out this was true the other day........ I don't know how to reject them all because i like them all as best mates and nother more...... I'm scared that eiher one of them will be my bf if i accept and not my best mate any more if I reject....... help me out people please........ how should let them down in a nice way? x Reply to this Question
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reader, Adey +, writes (10 November 2008):
Please don't lie to them like most girls do - 'its not you, its me... i don't want to ruin our friendship blah blah'. Boys hate such lines - what you actually mean is "i've never fancied you and I find you attention unwelcome" - Maybe find some mid-ground and be straight. i recommend you realise this will happen throughout your life. Get a wider group of friends and realise that you are attractive + men want to have sex with you. How you let them down will come easier especially if you are honest and don't try to 'let them down gently' - this doesn't mean you can't have some tact.
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Just say it straight love "I care about you as a friend" I've had lots of guy friends, And It got a little heated once as my b/f at the time was away and Id gone to my mates house and was trying to get in touch with my b/f..My what I thought best mate flipped and said "What's wrong with me!!!" I was taken aback as Id known him for ages and had no idea. But after that he never got in touch again..So he was not a mate after all..Just be careful I hope they are not just hanging around in the hope you want more or they are going to get more, A true friend will understand without having to ask really...You can only be truthful sweetheart, If they care for you they will understand TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX
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