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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a relationship with a bisexual older man for three years. We got a long well, but we do have arguments and usually I'm the one that started them. In the beginning, I did have a trust issue with him so that's how most of our arguments were. Last month, he told me that he met his old time ex-girlfriend and he would like to date her and want to break up with me. He wants to remain as friends with me. I'm having a tough time dealing with this since I didn't expect that this would happened. It hurts me too much when I think of not having him anymore as my boyfriend. We had so much good memories for me and it's tearing me apart when I think about it. I know that he pretty much had his mind set on getting back with his girlfriend. I really don't know how to deal with this. I can't seem to be able to let him go. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Thank you for your advice. I guess I just have accept that and stay friends with him. However, it's rather difficult for me. Every time we meet for lunch, he would talk about his girlfriend and that don't make me fee good at all. We used to spend every weekend together and now he doesn't call me anymore and doesn't seem to want to hang out with me. I feel rejected. I wish I could just forget about everything and start living my life, but I can't. I still think of him a lot.
I guess time will heal. In the mean time, I'm hopeless.
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