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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a HUGE crush on my softball coach.He is 12 years older than me.Last time I saw him (which was at the end of the season) he was single. My friends say that he flirts with me, but I can never tell whether he (or anyone else for that matter) is flirting with me, or just being nice. I've tried to stop crushing on him, but I REALLY, REALLY like him.What should I do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Let me ask you a question. What is it so many teens are liking older men? What do you consider being with him, when you know by dating someone that age is a crime. He can go to jail for it, and it doesn't matter how you feel when it gets to that point. I would try to resolve these feelings, and don't go after him. If you like him, you won't risk his freedom
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): You are only young, and 12 years is a fairly big difference when you're so young.
Do your mates know you fancy him? If they do they may only be playing along and trying to make you happy. =/
I don't think you should mention this to him - if he doesn't fancy you then it would be a HUGE cringe!
Try and keep yourself preoccupied and try to blot him out of your mind. In softball classes, concentrate on softball - not the coach!
Eventually your feelings should wear off.
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