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writes:My problem is that i have a hard time letting go. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and for the last year or so things have been missing (especially intimacy). I love him and he is wonderful but I think I need to end things for a while, which scares me because i love him, I am comfortable with him and he is such a great guy. I know I am not doing right by him but the fear of losing him forever is too great. Can anyone share their insight? ... Reply to this Question
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reader, kdaddy68 +, writes (25 August 2007):
How do you act towards him? Do you get mad over nothing and push him away or?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): u kno my girfrnd has the same problem as u do...she keeps on telling me that she fears that i wil go forever and the problem is the more happiness i give the more she fears me losing....so i understand how u feel...but i wil tel u sumthing v came to this world alone and v wil go alone...love shud make u stronger and not weak like this...my suggestion to u is that u dont leave this guy..he seems like a nice guy ..wat has he done to deserve this???? conversation helps..talk to him and tel him how u feel but dont tel him abt breaking up cas it wil break him down... god bless u :)
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reader, shauna +, writes (20 August 2007):
i have the same exact problem, and i also wish someone had an answer for me. people say that i should get out of my comfort zone, but after being with someone so long its very hard to do, ive tried to leave my man but i get so lonely and miss him so much i always go back. wish i could help.
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