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I have a crush on a shy girl and don't want to scare her off. Any advice?

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Question - (3 November 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2014)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ob93z20 writes:

So I have quite a crush on a very shy girl. Problem is, I myself am quite shy and a bit unsure about her feelings towards me. We do spend time together now and again and it's quite fun, but I don't really wanna scare her off or make things awkward. Any advice?

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A female reader, jojo7536 United States +, writes (5 November 2014):

I would say try to be a little more forward about your feelings. If you really like this girl, you should try to ask her on a date. If you don't try to move your relationship forward, she could end up moving on so I suggest you at least try to hint to her that you like her more than just as a friend. If she reacts uncomfortably, then there's a chance she doesn't like you but if she responds with the same feelings then you should ask her on a date.

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A male reader, Rob93z20 United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2014):

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We also used to talk a bit before the quietness started, maybe she has some feelings for me and got a bit bashful?

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A male reader, Rob93z20 United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2014):

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I'd also like to add, we did used to talk a bit but then she got quiet. I was wondering maybe she could have some feelings for me but is too shy?

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