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writes:HiI used to like this girl but after a cuple of incidents i fell out with her and began to resent her and hate herit was like having your heart crushed and squeshed everytime I saw her most of my friens were beging to whisper that i was becoming a hater and that i was cruel and inhuman after a couple of months ago one of my friend came to me and said that he heard her saying she loves me again some of my hatred at her peeled of and there was a small speck of kindness that crept into my heart for her i still feel hatefull and digusted of her but i aint sure what to do :( i really need help as i am beginining to dream about her !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): I think it depends on the situation. There is a difference between someone making a mistake and hurting someone and someone who deliberately goes out of their way to try and hurt others. If she has apologized, opened up and showed you she cares and has learned the errors of her ways I think you should give her another chance.However if you are Always going to think of her negatively and not forgive her for whatever issues you may have with her or her mistake then it's best you just leave her alone. She doesn't deserve that and it wouldn't be good for either of you
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (23 June 2011):
 i don't know what she has done to make you feel this negative about her but i think that sometimes just TOO MUCH happens and there is no coming back from it. if you ever softened enough to like this girl again i suspect you have trust issues about her now so i think you should probably leave things as they are. tell your mates you don't want to get involved and ask them to not mention her to you again. you and her should just go your separate ways
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 If you really dislike this girl well then there is no point forcing yourself to be friendly. Look back on the past and ask yourself what made this girl such a good friend and then look back to the time she hurt you and how you felt, ask yourself do you think you will be able to forgive what she done. If you feel like you will never get over the hurt she caused you well then it is best to keep your distance from her, but if you are unsure well then take things in small steps and see if you can both try and be friends again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): Okay, well it depends what these specific incidents are, did she seriously hurt you, and do something genuinely wrong because if she did and if she's not changed then you can't allow yourself to get hurt. The fact that she likes you again has got you interested because everyone likes it when someone's crushing on them. You need to decide if what she's done in the past, can be forgot or if its something that your just not ready to forget yet. If you can't yet forget it maybe rushing back into this relationship isn't the best thing and you should try moving on and ignoring any texts, phone calls (etc) Charlotte.
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