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I got involved with the wrong guy!

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Question - (19 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im not confused i jus need to hear the situation from someone elses point of view...I know i got caught up with the wrong guy. he cheated on his last girlfriend and when i didnt do anything with him last year he called me boring cause i would not talk to him. We are attracted to each other and I know he only wants to be with me for sex even tho i want to sleep with him i am not going to. Monday night my mom made the both of us go out on a date were we made out all night n he kept tryin to touch me but i kept pushing him away we went back to his car i gave him a handjob and he came and he sucked on my breasts. I knew it was wrong but it felt so good. Now he is in south carolina for school he left two weeks ago but came back down to do me a huge favor. Now im not gonna see him till november and we call each other all the time and text but we decided were not gonna date exclusively we agreed to date like talk over the phone so i could try to open up to him more, but still see other people. The thing is even though I know wat he wants I dont feel bad about wat we did. I also miss him alot i masturbate to his name all the time even tho he doesnt kno i never told him. and i dream of us havin sex all the time.Since he left he called me everyday and text me everyday.The thing is he is doing me a huge personal favor(i cant say) which is why we recently started hanging out cuz last year he tried and i turned him down. Im trying to believe in the saying everything happens for a reason. Sighhh I want us to grow apart but I also hope we could connect in the future. we have been friends since we were 11. Its a pretty messed up situation so what u think?

Us staying away from each other is not an option because of the huge favor hes doing for me.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (22 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntIn a nutshell, he's never going to be relationship material. He proved that when he cheated on his girlfriend with you and continued to keep a hold on you through open dating which is such a gray area. Your his go to girl when he comes back on break from school, he's making sure of that. Let this go because nothing good is ever going to result from this. Now what is this favor he is doing for you? Whatever it is, it's binding you to him. Out with the secret..

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