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I am 16, and addicted to internet porn, but looking at incest.

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Question - (12 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2008)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm a sixteen year old virgin, and I think I am obsessed with internet porn. Worst thing is I always find myself reading and looking at incest- father and daughter porn.

My Mom and Dad broke up when I was 2. I have never been sexually abused or anything like that.

And I am just wondering if there are reasons why people like that sort of porn??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

as long as when you masturbate you think of the people you see on the net and are not picturing yourself with your mom or future daughter then its OK.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

It's OK to look at porn, but don't get caught or do it to excess. You like the incest because it more exciting because it is taboo.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007):

Hi,

I dont think anything is wrong with looking at porn sites most people do, as for the other part i dont think really looking at something means there is something wrong with you, i look at gay things on the net but i am not gay i'm just curious and i like looking at it. If it worries you that you like looking at that sort of thing go and see the doctor he may be able to reccomend a counsillor to talk to, maybe there is psychological reasons to why you look at it.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (12 October 2007):

rcn agony auntWho do you live with?

I have daughters myself. I'm very active in their lives. I got worried about them maybe experimenting early so I researched to see is there would be preventative measures. I even researched different foods that boost sexual desire. I was determined to lower their drive. I knew telling them "men are evil creatures" would only last so long, before they decided to find out themselves.

If you are living with your mother. I recommend you seek a counselor. Reason being, not because of the "form" of porn you look at, but because of working with male bonding issues.

What I found in my research was, girls who are or divorced parents and live with their mothers, lack the male bonding, therefore, since they didn't receive the "father" "daughter" affection and bonding, they tend to seek it out by other means, including your habit.

You need assistance in working this out, but I will say it's safer than attaching yourself physically to older males to fill that void.

I hope this helps clear it up a bit for you. Take care.

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