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writes: I am writing this anonymously, because I feel like a fool. I got very drunk last night (alone) I was on this site for a couple of hours, after spending 2 hrs on the phone with my man (long distance relationship) we had a terrific conversation and all was perfect! But as I said, I then got on this site and after a couple of hours of reading and replying to women with fears and suspicions, I think what I did was transfer those things onto our relationship. I tried to call him back just to say goodnight and tell him I love him, but his phone rang and rang and rang which means he was on the computer (he has dial up) My imagination must've gotten the best of me...and the whole bottle of wine I drank definitely got the best of me! I accused him unfairly and quite vulgarly of talking with other women and being deceitful to me. I don't remember doing this but the proof is in front of me in black and white! I am so ashamed! I feel like an idiot! And this morning when I woke up with the worst headache ever, I checked my emails and there was a very angry one from him! I don't blame him for that. I don't blame him...I know what it is like to be accused of something unfairly...it hurts! I have to make it up to him, but I don't know how to really impact him so he believes how sorry I am! Help Me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate on Drunk and Foolish...he called me tonight and reassured me that all is well. He knows that I was drunk and foolish and he even made jokes about it. I reassured him that my love is for always. He did the same...but I have been taking a look at my alcohol consumption and need to do something about it. Every once in a while I cross the line and don't know when to stop...not very often but it happens and that's when I get myself into trouble. Especially with the internet. I am so aware that alcohol and computers don't mix!
Well thanks to everyone who applied! I am so relieved and happy tonight. Good night my new internet friends! I really love this site!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou both! (Moongoddess/Ebonyblossom) I have done some damage control, even before I got your response. I emailed him telling hime I'm so sorry, I'm an idiot, I he has never given me reason to doubt him...it was the wine more than anything. which leads me to believe I should take a serious look at that!!! I called him and left a msg on his phone telling him again how sorry I am! And then I went out bought him a card. I looked high and low for a "I'm sorry, I'm an idiot" card but couldn't find one, so I chose an "I Love You" card! I will write the appologies myself. And EbonyBlossom, you are right about going on this site while drinking! I love the tought of helping people with things I have been through, I couldn't stand the thought of hurting someone with "bad" advice!
Thanks again girls...You have made me feel much better! Although I have been having panic attacks all day! I feel a sense of calm coming over me.
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reader, Allison  +, writes (15 November 2008):
Well, we all do this, it's so easy to convert what we see or hear into our own lives, you made a mistake and you have admited to that, thats the hardest hurdle over, send your partner an email, detailing how sorry you are and how much you love him and that you just miss him so much. If he loves you he will understand you do have some insecurities but do be careful, sometimes accusing people just puts the idea in their head that if their loved one thinks they are being unfaithful, they may as well do it. Show him some love, let him know you trust him 100% and that YOU were just being silly, he will come around
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Tell him you're sorry and you know it was irrational. Explain what happened, but that it is no excuse. Also promise to make sure you don't do it again! If you stick together then you have to see that through unless you have real reason to be concerned.
Also make sure you don't go on this site when you're drunk again because a. your imagination could get away with you again and b. you could end up giving bad advice.
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