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I get the feeling he's got past issues and comparing me to them.

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Question - (1 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2008)
A female Canada age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Six weeks ago started dating this guy. He's not very cuddly i guess you could say. I noticed he wanted to move very slowly. That's ok....always seemed to do the things he wanted to.

One night he took my vehicle and drove his son and girlfriend home, he didn't ask me to go and i fell asleep. He never woke me up when he got home. It upset me and when i went to tell him, he got very upset and said here we go again!

This was the first time i had said anything was bothering me. It was also the weekend of my birthday. He wanted me to go home and i couldn't get a word in edgewise, i feel he must have past issues and compared me to that.

I really liked this guy. He hasn't called, should i just let it go, or try and tell him, maybe with a letter how i feel?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

Hang on - he stole your car and tried to turn it round when you got upset about it?

Yeah this guy has issues. Get out of this relationship now, tell him to come back when he's no longer a childish thieving pig.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, notinthesane United States +, writes (1 May 2008):

notinthesane agony auntIt sounds like this guy definately has some issues and I would just let it go. You can't fix him if he has problems, he has to work them out on his own. I think you should just let ti be and see if he calls. If he doesn't, then it just wasn't right.

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