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writes: I really do love my girlfriend, but recently if I try to hold her hand she pulls away. If we are out somewhere she speeds up and seperates herself from me, and although I told her I loved her and vice versa a lot of the time recently when I tell her I just get the cold shoulder. Can you tell me what is wrong or what I can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): There is a small possibility that your girlfriend is just infatuated with you, but thought she was in love when she told you, maybe she JUST realized that she was infatuated and shys away from you.
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reader, Simply +, writes (17 July 2005):
They are many reason as to why she may be acting this way towards you. The best thing to do is to let her come to you when she's ready to talk, I know you're concerned but she'll tell you when she's ready, if you push her to talk to you or try to get her to talk to you before she's ready things may end up worse than they are. Just be patient, continue to show her and tell her how much you love her and the rest is up to her. It may be something that has nothing to do with you. Just be patient, see how it plays out and then make your decision from there.Good luck and I hope things work out.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (14 July 2005):
Maybe her feelings towards you have changed.Maybe she doesnt believe you really love her.You have to talk to her and ask her whats changed, this is the only way youre going to find out.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (13 July 2005):
 Ask her to explain to you why she is behaving this way. Is it because she isn't demonstrative? Perhaps it makes her feel embarrassed. The only way you are going to fathom this out is by simply asking her and expecting an honest answer in return.
She may be giving you the cold shoulder because her feelings have changed.
All you can do is ask her and see how she responds.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2005): your gf is probably just scared... falling in love is the best thing in the entire world... but it can be scary and needs adjustment... talk to her about the affection problem...if she doesn't change her attitude... break it off with her... if she REALLY loves you.. she'll come backgood luck xJENx
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