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writes:I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not.) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started bleeding. One of my friends had enough and she went to the principal office and told when I say them not to. I really mad at her. Why do you think she did di it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): I know you r probably mad but don't be. The same thing happened to me.
The only reason your friend said anything is because she obviously has a deep concern for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): She was only trying to help you. She obviously sees that they hurt you and she gets fed up with it. It is the right thing to do, especially if the person has words with them, it generally leaves them shook up and they normally stop.
However, if you just laugh at them when they call you gay, they'll see it doesn't affect you and they will eventually stop. Perhaps you should get a girlfriend as that could also prove that you are straight. Don't take any notice and you should be thankful to your friend.
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reader, bellasmommy  +, writes (26 July 2008):
of course she did it because she's trying to help and doesnt wanna see you get hurt.
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reader, SilverSun +, writes (26 July 2008):
 She care's about you, and believe it or not it should be you telling an adult what happen, not her. I know this sounds dumb but I use to get the crap beat out of me by this one kid and I thought I would be narking if I told someone. Ifinally did tell someone about and they dealt with it for me. PS if people are your true friends they won't ditch you for something stupid like "Popularity
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reader, Angela.B  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 She did it because she cares about you and it was the right thing to do.No one should have to put up with being "picked on", and certainly not being assaulted which is a criminal offence.The behaviour of these bullies is completely unacceptable, and you don't have to put up with it. Talk to your teacher or other responsible adult about it - asking for help isn't being weak and nor is it "telling tales" when someone is doing this to you.Don't be mad with your friend - she was trying to help you.
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