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writes: I have found out that my fiance has put a personal ad on a sex site with a naked picture of himself and asking for responses from men and woman to have exciting sex sessions. He also said some pretty nasty things about me to make people feel sorry for him. He said he was curious and would never have met anyone and would never cheat on me. He is also sucking up big style now to try and make things work. Can I ever trust him again? I'm trying to make things work but I'm finding it difficult. Any advice?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (26 July 2005):
Nude pictures? This is going a bit far!
perhaps he did just do it in a moment of madness but I would keep an eye on him.
Give him one more chance and if he does anything klike this again, i would consider ending the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2005): If he's posting nude pictures of himself on a sex site...that's a good, clear indicator he wants to cheat
on you. He's chosen to expose himself because he desires it and he wants others to desire him. Kind of pathetic, really. People who post nude pics regard their own bodies just as sexual ware, not as something to be honoured,not something kept healthy above all and kept private, but open to the scrutiny of all the pervs, psychos and other deviant people out there in cyberspace.
If he was just "curious and would never meet anyone and would never cheat on you", then why post the nude pics of himself? I think he has sexual fantasies which are a bit deviant, so he's looking for someone who will accomodate him. Very creepy.
It will be just a matter of time before total strangers will contact him and he'll be tempted to live out his desires. This could mean very huge risk-taking sexual activity, down the road and the ramifications and devastating effects of this could mean: Aids, Std's, unwanted pregnancies, all possibly brought into YOUR
life. He's very selfish and has not thought of the consequences and his responsibilty/committment to you.
I would really consider dumping him and if you can bring yourself to do that...get rid of the damned computer. Time to have a real serious chat with your man...he has a perverse dark side to him that sounds downright dangerous to himself and to you. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2005): naked pictures on a website. very scary. i would run and never look back,
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