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anonymous
writes:heyok my bf has this major issue about me not trusting him. i find it very hard to trust pple especially since i have had alot of bad relationships in the past.anyways he like does all this like sort of tests to try and get me to trust him like he will ask for some money-nothing big and then you know say hell give it back, now more then anything is the money proplem i have started to trust him but not with money and he cant stand it. i understand its hard for him 2 be with someone who doesnt trust you as you would like. but is this normal behavior? i mean he is like going out of his way to try get me to trust him and true it does make me respect him but i donno. it takes time.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Are you saying, he is taking money off you, for long periods, and asking for more? If so then you would be right not to trust him, for he may just be using you for your money. Don't lend him anymore. Maybe the past relationships havent been good because you have been a bit soft with people,like y ou still are being. You must get tough. Tell your boyfriend, you trust him but you can not afford to give him anymore money and give him a deadline to give what he owes you back.
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