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I finally plucked the courage to make contact with her... Now what ?

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Question - (2 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, my name is R and I go to College. This story is about a girl that is in one of my classes. I like this one girl named h. She is very pretty. The thing that I like the most about her is her voice. I think that she has the sweetest voice ever. She might or might not have a boyfriend, I don’t know but if she does, that one guy is the luckiest person on earth. It happened like I don’t know, one day, I walked into the door of my sociology class and she was sitting right there, in the upper-middle area of the classroom. She was sitting there, waiting for the teacher to come as for most student do, but I don’t know, something just clicked. You can say that it is love at first sight or whatever you want. I told my friend N about her. One day, N told me to go and sit in the upper-middle row and try to talk to her but I was too scared to do so, yeah, you can call me a p***y whatever but from that point, I decided to take my chances as it was halfway through the course so I only have about 6 week to talk to her and make something happen. Like a wiz, I told my friend D that I like this ‘one’ girl in my class and he, like a dumbass, send her a message saying that I like her through myspace and yeah, everything went wrong from that point. Basically, he ‘killed’ it for me as she would think that I was some kind of stalker or something but that is false. Today is Thursday march 1, 2007 and I sent her a message telling her that I was in her class and etc… and she reply: she is going to check on monday. On Monday, I will show up to class and see what is going on and from this point on, I need people advices on what to do since I don’t want to ask any of my friends for obvious reason. The worst thing that can happen is that I am going to get rejected and the best case scenario is that something will happen between me and her. So yeah, what should I do now?????????

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 March 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntOn Monday sit next to her and say hello. Then make small talk until the professor comes in. When class is over maybe you could ask her out for coffee if you or she doesn't have class right after. If you have another class then maybe ask her to meet up latter when you are free. Don't be nervous you'll do just fine, you sound like a great guy! "sweetest voice ever" now that's sweet!

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