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writes: Please can people help me because im kind of confused. I was talking to this girl online and she was telling me about how she got depressed and that she was once in love and told me about it and how it ended in heartbreak. The next week i asked her if she trusted me... and she said no because she hardly knows me! if she doesn't trust me why did she tell me all that stuff?
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (8 June 2006):
 the thing about online conversations is that people can tell a lot of stuff about themselves cos they know they'll probably never meet the person. So she could've just told anyone. Doesn't mean that she trusts you.
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 maybe she just needed to get it out.
everyone needs to talk sometimes otherwise they bottle everything inside and get even more depressed then before
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reader, amiee +, writes (8 June 2006):
 heya,
she told you that stuff because you were talking about it and she didnt want to lie to you and tell you everything in her life has been perfect and she can hardly trust you if youve only been chatting online. plus the fact that its hard for women to trust men especialy online these days through more reported "meetings" from the net. she probably also told you that so you dont make her feel like that. instead of asking her if she could trust you. you could probably have said id never do anything like that i could never see you upset you can trust me. if you got to know eachother more, in time she probably would trust you im guessing you jsut asked it too soon. im a woman and would have probably said the same thing yet i wouldnt mean i will never trust you.
amiee xXx good luck best wishes
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reader, eddie  +, writes (8 June 2006):
 She told you that stuff because she wanted to vent off some steam. Really, think about this for a minute. How can she trust you, she doesn't know anything about you. Don't get caught up in the fantasy world of on line rrelationships. Example, I can go on here and ask questions about my rrelationship with my wife that I couldn't ask people who actually know us. Why? Because, if I ask my mother something about my wife, she'll form an opinion about my wife that could harm our relationship. It's too close to home. An anonymous person can offer help but pose no threat.
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