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writes:im 25 yrs n ave a 2year old son. i feel ugly even do my parter or my mum dont think so. i always think negative, i'm scared dat i am passing the negativity to my son. some of my friends made comments without thinking saying i am just there meaning nothing special about me, also i have big features what is wrong wit dat? i asked myslf! and that hurts. And i find myself having a problem when i see someone pretty i look for something tiny to say about them. And if a person is attractive, what does that mean not dat pretty? iwant people to think i am pretty not just there. i just feel depressed and sometimes i avoid meeting up with friends. do u think i shud keep my distance to those kind of people
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reader, toddybad +, writes (20 November 2008):
It sounds to me like you in the midst of a depression. You even used the word yourself. I don't really think it's a matter of not being around your friends - what what you've said they're not purposely saying things that make you feel sad it's more the way your taking the way things are said. with your child being your it could even be a drawn out post-natal depression. I'm in the middle of some councillingmyself after a few dramatic events in my life and feeling extremely low. It's helped and I'd definately recommend that you seek some yourself. There's plenty of help out there if your feeling depressed but don't believe that you are ugly i'm sure you're not you've obviously just got to a place in life where you're maybe not fully coping with things.
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