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writes:I feel so low when my boyfriend talk about other girls,celebrities ect its like he doesnt understand it may bother me, as if hes talking to one of the lads, what he says with the boys is up to him but it really gets me down when he will completely stop a conversation with me to watch some half naked celeb on the T.V then go on about how amazing she is, i never do this to me it just makes me feel not good enough :/ and im not being big headed or full of myself, but i'm not a minger ! Loli look after myself and my body and take alot of pride in my appearance and wouldn't like to think im that bad he has to do this? please help :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2012): I know exactly how you feel hon... I am 40 years old and went through the same thing as you did when I first met my bf... It made me feel sad and jealous in a strange way, like he was maybe compairing me to someone on tv. In my situation, I showed him that it made me mad and upset. He got the hint pretty quickly and completely stopped doing it. I think he was just testing me in a way to see if I would care or not. Just have one simple talk with him and let tell him to respect you and stop doing that. Say when you are with the guys? You can do that all you want to lol. When you are with me? I don't need to hear that because I don't think that's cool ;) Good luck sweetie and remember that most of these celebs have had surgery, boob jobs, spray tans and wear a ton of make up!! In reality? They look just like we do and no better. :D
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 He lacks manners and respect for you in this area. Would he, when summoned to his boss's office, pass loud gas while discussing business with him?
At dinnertime with his parents, would he sit back in his chair, reach his hand down his pants, and scratch an itch on his scrotum?
This has nothing to do with how good you are or aren't. He is just too familiar with you and lacks the ability to show respect to you. Sure, like the guy who itches or needs to pass gas, all guys notice beautiful women. That part's okay, but to stop conversation and gush about her in your presence is as rude as passing gas in the office and scratching balls in front of parents.
Tell him to knock it off before you find someone a bit more cultured than he is who knows how to act in his girlfriend's presence.
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reader, Lima Mike +, writes (14 May 2012):
Hi hun.
This is not nice to hear and the best advice I can give you is to talk your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Sometimes men just don't think. I don't think he is trying to hurt you, but it is hurting you and making you feel bad about yourself.
Don't put yourself down and ask how he would feel if you started doing this.
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