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I feel rejected and alone...can anyone help help me

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Question - (25 August 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

im having a really hard life at the moment. My brothers are leaving home to travel for a year, i will miss them so so much. To top it im moving schools and everyone has already forgotten about me :( i feel so rejected and alone and no one understands :(

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A male reader, marcezs08 +, writes (27 August 2006):

hey at least ur a girl, ull meet someone to fill that empty space soon, imagine what i had to go thru. never got along with my brother or sis, i moved to another country, i am very shy and had no friends cuz of it since i was 5, so ur life qualifies as "happy and furfilling" in my dictionary, and if u really need someone that much, go talk to someone...

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2006):

bonym agony auntSweetie, listen to me, do you have food to eat every day, clothes to wear, a bed to sleep in. I know you think that times are hard right now and I am not trying to say that they are not but my dear, you are just going through a rough patchand you must realise that it wont last. Not every day can be joy and laughter, there are periods in our lives when everything becomes too much, but I am sure not every one has forgotten you. Dont hide away, talk to your friends, its times like these when you need your good friends around you. Take care and I wish you all the best. Xx

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A female reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):

layla agony auntwell i think that you shouldnt feel alone because your not. i bet theres poeple not nessercerily (soz for the spelling) your family but your friends as well could help talk to them and start a conversation. I think they are worried about your brothers leaving. dont put too much pressure on yourself. everyone feels lonely at some point i say dont worry about it. Good luck xx

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A female reader, Tine United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2006):

Tine agony auntnobody will have forgotten about you, they are probably just giving you time to settle into your new school and then they will try and contact you, however if you feel that strongly about it then y not contact your friends first? im sure you will miss your brothers terribly but its normal, anyone would. However with them travelling so much they will be able to send you postcards and [hone you all the time, they will stil have a lot of contact with you and a year may seem like a long time now but honey will fly in, and it'll not be long before they are home for good. at the minute just concentrate on settling into your new school and making lots of friends and getting on with your life and time wil fly

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2006):

kellyO agony auntHi dearie,

I can assure you no one has forgotten about you and no one ever will. I known it is difficult with so many changes that is going on around but such changes usually happens in life. I have a sister in the united states that i havent seen for sometimes now and we used to me like twins, i have a brother also over there i havent seen for 5 years and we both went to the university together and i am alone in London.I must say i too miss them alot and we have made arrangements to see.

Dont worry there will be back in no time and u have alot to talk about and new experiences to learn from them. It is always difficult to go to a new school but take it as an adventure to meet new friends, it doesnt mean u should forget about old ones or that there will forget about u. Try to maintain contact with them.I bet you might even get to like your new school alot better than u think.

Cheer up, everyone is always excited to meet the new student and i am sure u will make alot of friends in no time.

Have lots of fun. kelly

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A male reader, guardian87 United States +, writes (25 August 2006):

guardian87 agony auntawww, i feel your pain. Have you tried to talk to your friends at your own school?

I know how you feel about this. I had to trade schools and start anew at a place i wasnt even used to (damn catholic school :P). But trust me, just be yourself and make new friends and I am sure your life will turn around. Agian, talk with your old friends as well and keep contact with them.

Good Luck!!!

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A female reader, SoNzZz +, writes (25 August 2006):

SoNzZz agony auntawww dont worrii hunny...you got ur frends. i dont think this will help but keep it in mind... thats life...people come n people go. but dont worryy....im positive everything will be ok! xx cheer up

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