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I feel nothing when having sex with my husband. Please advice.

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Question - (7 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I'm 30 years old, my husband is 39 years old; we've been married for 2 years.We have problems in sex, mainly I have a problem, I feel nothing while having sex with my husband. Please advise.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006):

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There are no problems how he treats me, he really loves me and I love him, he is very good husband and father; we have a boy, he is 18months old. The problem is that he is my first partner, i didn't have sex before and in 1 month after marriage i stayed pregnant; so, i didn't have time to get pleasure from sex.

After I gave birth to the child i had difficult period, i was feeding him more that 14 months, i wasn't sleeping good at night and I was really under stress or anxiety and to tell the truth i prefferd to have a rest and to sleep rather then having sex. Maybe all the above mentioned are the main reasons of the problem.

Thanks.

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A female reader, sleepysly +, writes (7 October 2006):

sleepysly agony auntgirl not everyone likes sex as much as the rest, i think its a waist of time,people confuse sex with love and to me they are totally different. do you love him? does he make you feel wanted and even special? i find that men think all they need to do for a woman is sex! for me sex is only ok when both parties love and show care for one another andcare about each others feelings. women easily feel used. maybe he dont fullfill your needs

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