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I feel more attracted to my close girlfriend than to my boyfriend!

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Question - (13 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Dear cupid,

I have a pretty typical question, I am 25 year old girl from Idaho. I'm in relationship with the most amazing guy ever! However I have close Girlfriend( as in only friends) but I keep feeling attracted to her.

Recently I've been getting the feeling that the attraction is mutual and I'm finding this confusing. I've been attracted to girls for a while now but never acted on it although I want to with her. I'm confused.

Help!

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A female reader, lea22dc +, writes (14 April 2006):

If you really love your boyfriend, you need to be completely honest with him. Let him know that you are curious and want to explore. Inform him before you approach her. You might just infactuated with the thought of being with another women. You might just get a threesome out of the deal. Here comes the hard part, approaching her. I was in the same situation, minus the boyfriend. I approached my best friend and asked her if she thought it would destroy our friendship if we did something together. she was just as eager. Now all of this comes with consequences, she ended up falling in love with me. It affected our friendship for awhile, but we're still real close and talk almost everyday. I'd say go for it, just be honest with all parties envolved.

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A female reader, narnipie +, writes (14 April 2006):

just explain to her how youfeel, i felt this too but now i am married and living happily with my husband in australia

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