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Is there anything wrong with his weird bump??

Q.   My boyfriend has a werid bump on his thing. Is that werid? He says its been there since he can remember. We were both each others first so it can be that problem. It is only noticable when its happy. What is wrong?...

A.   29 April 2006: You should definetly get tested. No offense people do lie about their sexual history. Even if you've been having protected sex, if it is a sore, if it leaks on you, you can possibly get a disease that you can't get rid of. Google pictures of people ... (read in full...)

Half-way through sex I go soft, what can the problem be??

Q.   I have sex with my girlfriend we start doing it then half way through it i get soft what can be the problem?...

A.   29 April 2006: My boyfriend has the same problem. We used a cock ring and the problem was solved, but you can't ejaculate with it on. Next we're going to try some stay hard cream. So try a few different things to see what works for you.... (read in full...)

He always looks at porn and masturbates everywhere..even when talking to me on the phone! What should I do?

Q.   im 18 years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. my problem is that he always looks at porn and masturbates (even at my house on my computer, on the phone with me, ...and once he looked at porn in the school library and ...

A.   29 April 2006: Watching porn is not cheating, using his hand is not cheating. He's a marathon man. He's just not finish when you are, like I said before, lend him YOUR HAND, or something else. There are alot women who wished they had a man that can keep going, ... (read in full...)

Abortion advice needed!

Q.   Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...

A.   29 April 2006: Awwwhh!!! I was hoping you the test would come back negative as well. I understand that you feel that you're too young, I had my first at 14, and it was hard, but I had alot of family help and support. It's not too much to asked him to go with you. ... (read in full...)

Should I see my doctor about vaginal fluid?

Q.   Hello Well I'm 13 14 in 2 weeks well i have been gettin discharge a really creamy white one when ive just cum off my period its not as bad but a week after me coming off my period it cums back like loadz it fills the crutch of my thong id this str...

A.   27 April 2006: Yes, you need to see your OB/GYN. If you been having your cycle and now just discovering this problem, it may be more than normal vaginal discharge. If it's milky white and there's alot of it, it may very well be a yeast infection. If this is the ... (read in full...)

Abortion advice needed!

Q.   Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...

A.   23 April 2006: Did you do the home pregnancy test or did you go to the doctor? You said it seems like ur pregnant, does that mean the results were positive? ... (read in full...)

Could I have gotten pregnant through blowing him without a condom?

Q.   My boy friend and i regually have oral sex...now i did it last nite without a condom is it possible i am pregnant?...

A.   23 April 2006: You can not get pregnant from oral sex. It is impossible. If the sperm hits the air its dead. When you swallow, they don't reach your eggs. You can however, contract many STD's or even HIV/AIDS. Did you know that there are alot of STD's you are ... (read in full...)

I lied to her about my age because I thought she wouldn't like me. I want to tell her the truth but will she think I will always lie, in the future?

Q.   Hi i have just met a girl over the phone. I got her number off a friend of mine. I havent actually met her in person ive only seen a picture of her. She likes the sound of me and i like the sound of her. But i told her a lie over the phone she asked ...

A.   20 April 2006: Tell her the truth. It was a silly thing to lie about and it's only a year. the truth is always the way to go and considering the lie you told, she might just have a good laugh.... (read in full...)

Vaginal intercourse doesn't do much for me..

Q.   Alright guys. Simple question. I need tips. I can't have orgasms during sex. Clitoral orgasms are fine. My boyfriend is amazing at giving me those with his fingers, but penetrating does nothing? Advice?...

A.   18 April 2006: I had the same problem. I use to dsask myself why can my friends have a vaginal orgasm, but I can't. After questioning my friends, I found out that from the time they started masterbation up til now, it was vaginal. Whereas, mine was clitorial. I ... (read in full...)

After sex he gets a 'raw'spot and we both burn, please help!!!

Q.   Me and my husband have been married for 13 yrs, we have a great sex life but when we have sex he gets a "raw" spot on his penis and both of us have a burning sensation when we finish. It doesnt burn with oral sex only during intercourse. PLEASE ...

A.   18 April 2006: Yeah, I agree, most likely Sexual related infection or disease. It could be something as simple as a yeast infection. A female can give her male partner a yeast infection. But definetly make appointments to see your doctors. In the mean time you ... (read in full...)

Was our sex consensual or was I sexually assualted?

Q.   I want to know if I was indeed sexually assaulted by my ex-boyfriend. I was sleeping at his house (we had done this several times but I had never had sex with him), and I woke up to him starting to finger me. He also gave me oral sex. I was surp...

A.   16 April 2006: Ok, I did misunderstand the fact that he was your boyfriend at the time, but what I didn't misunderstand is that you then had consenual sex with him and you stayed with him. I agree with him, if you thought he raped you or was unsure, you should ... (read in full...)

All I've done is make out with my boyfriend, so why is my period late?

Q.   I usually start my period almost right on the same day each month, or the same day after my last period, I mean. Well it's been 2 days since that day now and I am flipping out. I know that isn't that long but I am really regular and I haven't been ...

A.   16 April 2006: Don't worry you can't get pregnant from kissing and touching!!! Your cycle is just changing. It's going to keep changing, your cramps will start geting worse. Like to the point you can't walk. So if no intercourse occurred and he didn't put his ... (read in full...)

My new wife is into exhibitionism. I love it now, but where will it all end?

Q.   I have been having an relationship with my current partner for almost 8 months now and I think we have a great sex life but I am not sure where it will end ? We slept together on our first date and it was really good, we had known each other fo...

A.   16 April 2006: ENJOY!!!ENJOY!!!ENJOY!!! You married her and knew who she was, fortunatly for you, she was honest and herself from the start. That is a great startfor any relationship. Enjoy, you never know she might calm down by herself, but don't try to change ... (read in full...)

He always looks at porn and masturbates everywhere..even when talking to me on the phone! What should I do?

Q.   im 18 years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. my problem is that he always looks at porn and masturbates (even at my house on my computer, on the phone with me, ...and once he looked at porn in the school library and ...

A.   16 April 2006: There's nothing to get angry about. If he watches porn that often, maybe you should try being the show. Buy some sexy lingerie, or a slutty outfit, you could be the show. About the masterbating, it is a sign that he's not getting enough from you. ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to give -- or receive -- oral sex! Says she doesn't like it...

Q.   My girlfriend doesn't want to give me oral sex Hi, I was wondering if you could give me a tip of how to handle this situation. I have been dating my girl for a few months and she is fantastic. Our sex life is great except for the fact that she do...

A.   16 April 2006: Now this is my area of expertise!!! Ok now, every woman would love oral sex, IF IT WAS DONE RIGHT!!! The last guy she had oral sex with probably was terrible at it. That could scar a girl for life if it's their first. This is my suggestion to you, ... (read in full...)

Abortion advice needed!

Q.   Hey people, first post on here. I'm 17, going to university in september to study veterinary medicine. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and having sex for bout 6 months... few weeks ago we had sex in the middle of my cycle, ...

A.   16 April 2006: Ok, the important thing is not to try to stress yourself out to much until you know for sure. Stressing before you actually know could cause you to have all the signs of pregnacy and you're not even pregnant. Morning sickness, nuasea, headaches, ... (read in full...)

Was our sex consensual or was I sexually assualted?

Q.   I want to know if I was indeed sexually assaulted by my ex-boyfriend. I was sleeping at his house (we had done this several times but I had never had sex with him), and I woke up to him starting to finger me. He also gave me oral sex. I was surp...

A.   16 April 2006: Ok, he was your ex right, then why were you repeatedly spending the night. You said no at first, but when he continued did you make an effort to stop him, did you struggle. Or did you just lay there and let it happen. He wasnt your boyfriend ... (read in full...)

She has to pee a lot... Is my girlfriend pregnant?

Q.   I was out with my girlfriend for 6 hours today.. within those 6 hours she had to go to the bathroom 4 times. and they seemed to be really close together. I know one of the signs of pregnancy is having to pee a lot more frequently.. could this be a ...

A.   16 April 2006: It's a possibility. But it could also be that she really is about to get her period. Some girls experience discharge and cramps that are not so bad before they come on. Female hygiene all together is a job. Go to the aisle in the grocery store, ... (read in full...)

I've known her a week.. is it going too fast?

Q.   Hi, maybe I just want some reassurance but do you people think that this could work? I met a girl 26, I am 32 a couple of weeks ago when I was out for a night on the town. I won't lie, we were very attracted to each other and by the end of the n...

A.   15 April 2006: I'm currently in the same situation. Things started off get, but the bumps in the road was soon to come. We both had bad relationships, but his were far worse. From that he's very insecure, untrusting that my motives are pure. But they are and I ... (read in full...)

His ex boyfriend stole him from me!!!

Q.   I need help! i meet a lad who is 18 4 months ago, we were friends, and at the time he was in a relationship which went terribly wrong for him, i was there for him to support him whilst he was moving on with his life from his x bf, we then got ...

A.   15 April 2006: That's the risk you take when you date someone that's on the rebound, especially if they were deeply in love. Some people just need time to see for themselves that someone is not good for them. the only thing you can do, that is if you're willing, ... (read in full...)

Broke up Saturday, back together Wednesday, broken up again Wednesday night. What's going on?

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me recently, last Saturday, saying that we fight too much and argue too much. I am 18 and she is 15. After talking about things she said she still wanted to see me now and again while meeting other people. We met in perso...

A.   15 April 2006: Ok, first of all, she's only 15. Second, you could be arrested if sex takes place, those are just some things to keep in mind. She obviously doesn't know what she wants right now and maybe the thought of a serious relationship is just too much for ... (read in full...)

We have a very active sex life, so why does he still need porn?

Q.   I recently married the man I have been with for almost 3 years, in the past he has had a problem with pornography. I have told him over and over that this is something I do not approve of, but still he doesn't seem to respect my wishes..The thing I ...

A.   14 April 2006: Not at all, there's no problem. I enjoy porn myself. When you married him, it was for better or worse. At least you know that he's not having sex with anyone else.If you're having sex 2-3 times a day, he shouldn't have the energy for anyone else. ... (read in full...)

I feel more attracted to my close girlfriend than to my boyfriend!

Q.   Dear cupid, I have a pretty typical question, I am 25 year old girl from Idaho. I'm in relationship with the most amazing guy ever! However I have close Girlfriend( as in only friends) but I keep feeling attracted to her. Recently I've ...

A.   14 April 2006: If you really love your boyfriend, you need to be completely honest with him. Let him know that you are curious and want to explore. Inform him before you approach her. You might just infactuated with the thought of being with another women. You ... (read in full...)

My bf wont have sex with me till he's obese!!

Q.   Hi, I'm 18, my boyfriend's 21 and he refuses to have sex with me any more. We have a good relationship but sexually it isn't as good as it used to be. I asked him why he doesn't want sex with me any more, and he said he won't have sex until he be...

A.   13 April 2006: Some guys don't know how to express their true feelings. It might be that he just doesn't want to have sex with you for other reasons, or maybe he just want out all together. Look at the tell-tell signs. Do you actually see him taking measures to ... (read in full...)

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