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I feel like something is stopping me from losing weight even thought husband wants me to!

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Question - (8 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

We've been married for 11 yrs, dated for 2 yrs. Ive always been very possessive about him. He lived it initially and later it started bothering him. I never liked him going out wit female coworkers for lunches or any other weekend group activities. Ive always told him to keep his relations with females at work strictly professional.but he seems to be friendly with everyone. All female coworkers end up on his FB a/c or chat applications.i hate this. We have 2 beautiful kuds, younger one is an infant.

I got weight issues throughout my married life.since I was 150 lbs 10 yrs back to now when Im 180 lbs, he has been telling me to lose weight. I did lose weight twice but never got less than 150. He wants me to be 135 lbs. Even when we dated, i was 140 approx...i always think abt all diets n exercises but never follow a routine, i have not tried hard enough, only in my mind.

Now from last yr he is in a job where he closely has to work with good looking fit shaped females. I nag him with qs, check his phone, emails and ask him too many qs.

We still have sex atleadt once a week.he still says he lives me and family is first for him.

But with this new job he alsi has to work on weekends and late evenings, client meetings dinners with all these women. Im so jealous and frustrated.

Also i feel something inside stops me from trying to lose weight like some sort of stubbornesd but i dont know exactly what is it.What do i do?please help!!!!!

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