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writes:i've got an issue, my mom died like a year ago and lately i've been getting like these jealous rages with/about my step sister and step dad.... i don't know why i get mad, i just do! and i get soo jealous. like the past 2 weeks my step sister, let's call her jamie, was in georgia with her mom visiting and she always comes back with a whole bunch of new clothes etc. while i sit at home babysitting 24/7, not gettin paid and not getting hardly any attention,, i no that some of my feelings are probably favored towards not having my mom around any more and that my step dad(even though i'm sure he wuldn't admit it) favoring "jamie", but sometimes i feel like i have bipolar or something.. and i no my dad wouldn't let me go to a therapist, idk wat to do. can anyone help at all?
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. Its possible you are jealous because your step sister has a mother, and you have no biological parents around. Since your step sister is your step dads biological daughter may be the reason why he pays more attention to her.I'm not saying this is right at all though. Your step father should step in and make sure all your needs are nurtured. Losing a parent isn't easy, especially at a young age.I would suggest seeking therapy. Do you have any grandparents you could visit? or a best friend to help you through it?Please talk to your step father about the way you are feeling. If you don't feel you can say it - write him a letter and leave it on his bed.You will be in my prayers.Good luckxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): I am really sorry to hear of your mom thats really sad but you need to talk to your step dad and let him kno how you feel keeping it bottled up inside will not help you only make you mad and do you not have anyone in your corner i feel soo bad for you it is such a terrible thing to feel alone and my heart goes out to you be strong and kno that what you feel is very natural but an get harmful if you dont let it out
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (1 July 2009):
Baby girl it sounds to me like you are jealous of your step sister because she has a mom at least parttime i would think why isnt she with her mother instead of father. You need to talk to someone at school to deal with your issues there are places that can help you without you needing to go through your step dad I am sorry you seem so unhappy and have apparently taken on the mother duties of the house GOD BLESS YOU AND I WISH YOU WELL GET SOMEONE OUTSIDE THE HOME TO HELP YOU WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IS NORMAL FOR SOMEONE YOUR AGE WITH THIS BIG A LOSS IN THERE LIFE. Dont take your anger out on your step sister try to encourage her to help you that way you can be there for each other GOOD LUCK BABY GIRL ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Hey bud, I honestly can't say I've been in a situation like you're in. I'm sorry to hear that they aren't showing you the caring that you need, it's just kind of wrong. Do you make a lot of problems for your step dad? Like staying out late, causing trouble, anything like that?If possible, find some friends that can help you get your mind off the bad things. Find people can can help you think positive about your life. Maybe even talk to some girls and see if anything sparks between you guys. Having close friends or a girlfriend that cares for you will always make things better.Just make sure you both care about each other, don't become friends because you want to use them. I know I might not make sense, but hopefully you can kind of see what I'm trying to explain.I wish you luck.
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